There was a season in my life when I felt deeply stuck—like every door was closed, every opportunity delayed. I kept wondering, why is God holding me back? I saw others moving forward, while I stood still.
But as time passed, I began to see something different. What felt like a delay was actually preparation. God was shaping me. He was protecting me from relationships and paths that weren’t right for me. He was teaching me patience, trust, and surrender.
Looking back, I realize God’s delays weren’t denials; they were divine detours, guiding me toward something better. I can see now that none of those relationships were equally yoked. I had heard that phrase my whole life, but it took heartbreak to understand it deeply. Now, I know I can never settle for less.
I will not settle—no matter how tempting, no matter how perfect it may seem on the surface. I will not settle for anything less than being equally yoked—where both of us pursue God, where there is true reciprocation, and where our faith leads us. I know it’s hard these days—especially with social media, where people aren’t always real, and it’s easy to get caught up in illusions. But I will stay grounded, seeking authenticity and God’s truth.
As Ecclesiastes 4:12 says, “A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.” So, I trust that God is weaving my story, and when the right person comes, we’ll stand strong—three strands, with God at the center.
-Wendy
Grow in Grace 
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