Grow in Grace

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  • Twelve Years to Whole

    Twelve Years to Whole

    By: Wendy Morris

    “And you are complete in Him.” — Colossians 2:10

    For a long time, I viewed the last twelve years as a waiting season.

    Twelve years since my divorce. Twelve years of healing, rebuilding, surrendering, and learning how to trust God again. Twelve years of hoping that perhaps the next chapter would bring the husband, best friend, and partner I still desire.

    But lately, something has shifted in me.

    I realized that I no longer feel as though my life is waiting to begin. I don’t feel incomplete because I’m single. I’m not searching for someone to rescue me, fill an empty space, or give me the peace I’ve been longing for.

    My life feels complete—regardless of whether my circumstances change.

    And it took twelve years to get here.

    The Biblical Significance of Twelve

    Throughout Scripture, the number twelve often represents divine order, authority, and completeness in God’s purposes.

    There were twelve tribes of Israel and twelve disciples of Jesus. After Jesus fed the multitude, twelve baskets of food remained. Revelation describes the New Jerusalem with twelve gates and twelve foundations.

    There was also a woman in Scripture who had suffered for twelve years before she reached out and touched the garment of Jesus. In the same passage, Jesus raised Jairus’s twelve-year-old daughter back to life.

    Twelve years of suffering.

    Twelve years of waiting.

    And then came healing, restoration, and new life.

    When I began thinking about the significance of twelve, I couldn’t ignore how deeply it spoke to my own story. I don’t believe numbers should be treated as promises or predictions, but I do believe God can use details to remind us of His faithfulness.

    Maybe these twelve years were never wasted years.

    Maybe they were years of divine order—years when God was putting the broken pieces of my life back into their proper places.

    I Wasn’t Just Waiting—I Was Becoming

    I used to believe I was waiting for the person who would make my life feel complete. But looking back, I can see that God was doing something much deeper.

    He was teaching me who I am without another person defining me.

    He was healing wounds I once thought would always control me. He was teaching me boundaries, discernment, forgiveness, and self-respect. He was showing me that forgiveness does not require allowing someone to return and hurt me again.

    He taught me how to sit with myself and still have peace. He showed me that loneliness does not have to convince me to settle. He taught me that I can deeply desire companionship without allowing that desire to become an idol.

    These years strengthened my faith. They taught me to pray, journal, surrender, and depend on God in ways I may never have learned if everything had happened according to my timeline.

    I thought I was waiting for God to change my circumstances.

    All along, God was changing me.

    Complete Does Not Mean Finished

    Feeling complete does not mean my story is finished. It does not mean I no longer desire marriage or that I have stopped believing God could bring someone into my life.

    I still desire a husband who loves God first—a best friend, partner, protector, and companion with whom I can share this life. I still believe there is something beautiful about two people walking together with God at the center.

    But that person will not be responsible for making me whole.

    He will not be asked to heal wounds that I have refused to surrender to God. He will not be expected to become the source of my identity, worth, or peace.

    If God brings someone into my life, he will not complete an incomplete woman. He will add to a life that is already full, peaceful, and rooted in Christ.

    That realization changes everything.

    I can desire love without chasing it. I can hope without forcing anything. I can wait without believing my life is passing me by.

    I am not waiting to become whole anymore.

    Perhaps This Was a Completion Season

    Maybe these twelve years were not simply a waiting season.

    Maybe they were a completion season.

    Not the completion of my entire story, but the completion of something within me. The end of living from old wounds. The end of believing that another person holds the missing piece of my life. The end of looking outside myself for something only God could give me.

    God has taken the woman who once lived in survival mode and taught her how to live in peace. He has taken what was broken and created something stronger, wiser, and more discerning.

    It took twelve years, but I can finally say this with confidence:

    My life is complete because my completeness comes from Christ.

    I am still growing. I am still becoming. I still have desires and prayers that have not been answered in the way I once imagined. But my joy is no longer postponed until those answers arrive.

    These twelve years were not empty.

    They were holy.

    They were necessary.

    And perhaps they were God’s way of bringing order, healing, and completeness to a part of my story that once felt completely shattered.

    I don’t know exactly what God will do next, but I no longer need the next chapter to prove that this one has been meaningful.

    I am whole.

    And now, with an open heart and open hands, I’m simply watching to see what God writes next.

    Reflection Questions

    1. Have you been postponing your joy while waiting for something in your life to change?
    2. Are you asking another person or circumstance to provide something only God can give you?
    3. What has God developed within you during your waiting season?
    4. What if the season you called “waiting” was actually a season of healing and becoming?
    5. Can you recognize the ways your life is already full and complete in Christ?

    Closing Prayer

    Father, thank You for every season You have used to heal, strengthen, and shape me. Forgive me for the times I believed my life could not be complete until my circumstances changed. Help me find my identity, peace, and wholeness in You alone. Thank You for never wasting a single year of my story. Give me the faith to appreciate where I am while trusting You with whatever comes next. In Jesus’ name, Amen! 

    —Wendy

  • The Quiet Evidence of Growth

    The Quiet Evidence of Growth

    By: Wendy Morris

    Sometimes I find myself wondering how much my faith has really changed over the years.

    After everything I’ve walked through—the heartbreak, betrayal, disappointments, healing, and countless lessons God has faithfully carried me through—I occasionally wonder if I’m really that different.

    At first, I think maybe I’m not.

    Then I look at my life.

    I notice that situations which once would have sent me into anxiety, fear, or panic no longer have the same hold on me. My mind doesn’t immediately race to the worst-case scenario. I don’t feel the same desperate need to control every outcome or figure everything out on my own.

    Instead, I pause.

    I pray.

    I trust.

    That doesn’t mean I never struggle or that I’ve somehow “arrived.” It simply means God has been quietly transforming me from the inside out.

    And maybe that’s what spiritual growth often looks like—not dramatic moments everyone can see, but subtle changes in the way we respond to everyday life.

    The greatest evidence of my growth isn’t that life has become easier.

    It’s that what once shook me no longer has the power to move me.

    As I’ve reflected on that, I’ve noticed something else changing in me.

    I’ve become content.

    Not because everything in my life is exactly how I hoped it would be.

    Not because every dream has come true.

    Not because I’ve stopped wanting good things.

    But because I’ve stopped believing those things are responsible for my happiness.

    There was a time when I was always looking for the next thing that I thought would finally make me feel complete.

    Maybe it was another accomplishment.

    Maybe it was a new opportunity.

    Maybe it was finally finding the right relationship.

    I lived as though peace was always waiting somewhere in the future—just one answered prayer, one achievement, or one person away.

    But every time I reached what I thought would satisfy me, the feeling eventually faded, and I found myself searching again.

    Looking back, I realize I wasn’t really chasing those things.

    I was chasing peace.

    And peace was never something another person or another accomplishment could give me.

    Over time, through surrender, obedience, and allowing God to heal the deepest places of my heart, something changed.

    The void I spent years trying to fill slowly disappeared.

    Not because life became perfect.

    Not because I suddenly had everything I’d ever wanted.

    But because God was changing me.

    He was renewing my mind.

    He was teaching me that lasting peace isn’t found in circumstances. It isn’t found in relationships. It isn’t found in success.

    It is found in Him.

    Now I can honestly say something I never thought I would.

    I enjoy my own company.

    I can sit quietly with myself without feeling lonely.

    I can experience joy in an ordinary day.

    I can embrace this season of life without constantly wishing it away.

    If God chooses to bring someone into my life one day, I’ll welcome that as a beautiful gift.

    If new opportunities come, I’ll be grateful.

    If dreams are fulfilled, I’ll celebrate them.

    But none of those things are responsible for making me whole.

    They can add to my joy.

    They just don’t create it.

    That has been one of the greatest freedoms I’ve ever experienced.

    It’s taken years to reach this place.

    Years of healing.

    Years of facing hard truths.

    Years of surrendering control.

    Years of allowing God to replace fear with trust, striving with surrender, and insecurity with confidence in Him.

    When I look back now, I don’t just see someone who survived difficult seasons.

    I see someone whose mind has been renewed.

    Someone who no longer looks outside herself for what God has already placed within her through His presence.

    The woman I am today still has dreams.

    She still hopes.

    She still prays for what’s ahead.

    But she’s no longer waiting for something—or someone—to make her life meaningful.

    She has learned that contentment isn’t the absence of desire.

    It’s the presence of peace.

    The Apostle Paul wrote, “I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances” (Philippians 4:11).

    Notice he said he learned it.

    Contentment wasn’t instant.

    It was cultivated.

    Looking back, I realize that’s exactly what God has been doing in my life all along.

    He wasn’t simply changing my circumstances.

    He was changing me.

    And perhaps that’s His greatest miracle in my story.

    Reflection Questions

    1. What situations no longer affect you the way they once did, and what does that reveal about your growth?
    2. Are you looking to a person, achievement, or future circumstance to provide the peace only God can give?
    3. What evidence can you see that God has been renewing your mind?
    4. How can you choose gratitude and contentment in your current season while still trusting God for what lies ahead?

    Prayer

    Father, thank You for the quiet work You have done in my heart. Thank You for healing places I thought would always remain broken and for renewing my mind through Your truth. Thank You that my peace no longer depends on my circumstances but on Your presence. Continue to teach me to live with open hands, grateful for every blessing You give while remaining fully satisfied in You. Help me to trust Your timing, embrace each season with joy, and reflect the freedom that comes from knowing You are enough. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

    —Wendy

  • Are You Running From Your Own Healing?

    Are You Running From Your Own Healing?

    By: Wendy Morris

    “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” — Psalm 147:3

    Are you running?

    “Are you running from your own healing?”

    It’s a simple question, yet it has the power to reveal what we’ve been avoiding for far too long.

    Healing isn’t always about time passing. Sometimes it’s about being willing to face the very things we’ve spent years trying to escape. We stay busy. We distract ourselves with work. We jump from relationship to relationship. We pour ourselves into everyone else. We bury our emotions beneath constant activity.

    But eventually, what remains unhealed asks for our attention.

    Many of us wonder why we continue struggling with the same fears, insecurities, unhealthy patterns, or emotional triggers. Maybe the better question isn’t, “Why am I still struggling?” but rather:

    • Am I avoiding difficult emotions instead of processing them?
    • Am I seeking temporary comfort instead of lasting healing?
    • Am I willing to let God reveal the places in my heart that still need His healing touch?

    My Own Journey

    During my own healing journey, I found myself doing the work—but also fighting it.

    I wanted healing, yet I struggled to fully surrender. Loneliness often convinced me that what I needed was another person in my life. I believed that if I just had companionship, the emptiness would disappear. Looking back, I realize I wasn’t truly looking for a relationship—I was looking for relief.

    While God was trying to heal the deeper places in my heart, I was sometimes looking for someone else to fill what only He could.

    God patiently began revealing that the issue wasn’t simply loneliness. It was the belief that another person’s presence could make me whole.

    He showed me that before I could build healthy relationships with someone else, I needed to learn how to sit with my own emotions. I needed to process my pain instead of running from it. I needed to understand why I felt incomplete on my own. Most importantly, I needed to find my identity in Christ instead of another person.

    That was one of the hardest lessons I’ve ever learned.

    Healing Requires Surrender

    Healing requires courage because it asks us to stop running and start surrendering.

    It means allowing God into the painful places we’d rather keep hidden. It means acknowledging the wounds instead of pretending they no longer exist.

    The beautiful part is that God never exposes our wounds to shame us. He reveals them so He can heal them.

    As I surrendered more of my heart to Him, something began to change.

    The loneliness that once controlled my decisions slowly lost its grip. My need for validation from others became less important. I learned to enjoy my own company. I began loving the woman God created me to be.

    I realized that wholeness isn’t found in another person—it is found in Christ.

    Relationships are a gift from God, but they were never meant to become our source of completeness.

    Freedom is Found in Him

    The freedom we long for is often found on the other side of obedience, honesty, and surrender.

    While the healing process may be uncomfortable, it produces something that temporary distractions never can—peace, freedom, confidence, and true wholeness.

    Looking back now, I don’t believe God was withholding something good from me during my waiting season.

    He was preparing me.

    He was teaching me to become whole in Him before asking someone else to walk beside me.

    What once felt like loneliness became an invitation to know God more deeply. The more I learned to love the person He created me to be, the less I depended on others to fill a place they were never meant to occupy.

    Now I understand that healing isn’t about becoming perfect.

    It’s about becoming surrendered.

    God’ Promise

    “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” — Psalm 147:3

    God never asks us to heal ourselves.

    He simply asks us to bring our brokenness to Him.

    The places you’ve been trying to hide may be the very places where His grace wants to meet you.

    Stop running.

    Your healing is waiting.

    Reflection Questions

    1. What emotions or situations have I been avoiding instead of processing?
    2. Where have I been seeking temporary comfort instead of lasting healing?
    3. Is there an area of my life I haven’t fully surrendered to God?
    4. Am I looking to another person to provide what only God can provide?
    5. What is one step of obedience God is asking me to take today?

    Prayer

    Father,

    Search my heart and reveal the places where I have been running instead of healing. Give me the courage to face the wounds I’ve tried to ignore and the faith to trust You with every broken place.

    Help me stop seeking temporary comfort and begin pursuing the lasting peace that only You can give. Teach me to find my identity, security, joy, and worth in You alone.

    When loneliness tempts me to settle for less than Your best, remind me that You are enough. Continue Your work in me until my heart is fully surrendered and my life reflects Your goodness and Your faithfulness.

    Thank You for being the God who heals the brokenhearted and binds up our wounds with compassion and unfailing love.

    In Jesus’ name,

    Amen.

    —Wendy

  • Faithful in the Waiting

    Faithful in the Waiting

    By: Wendy Morris

    The people God uses the most are not always the ones with the easiest paths. Often, they are the ones who stayed faithful in the hardest seasons. The ones who refused to let the waiting or the silence convince them to stop believing.

    They are the people who held onto the promises of God for so long that it left marks on their hands — not wounds, but evidence of faithfulness.

    Waiting seasons are rarely comfortable. Most of the time, preparation looks and feels like loss.

    It can feel like God is stripping away the very things we once held tightly to — relationships, comfort, familiarity, plans, and even dreams we thought would last forever. Sometimes the things we cling to most are quietly chipping away at us little by little, and God, in His mercy, begins pruning what no longer aligns with where He is taking us.

    The wilderness seasons can feel painful. Doors close. Relationships end. Dreams shatter. Life feels uncertain and confusing. But what feels like everything falling apart may actually be God building your faith for what He has promised.

    The waiting is not punishment.
    The wilderness is often preparation.

    Genesis 50:20 reminds us:

    “What the enemy meant for evil, God meant for good.”

    Every heartbreak, disappointment, betrayal, delay, and lonely season can become part of the process God uses to shape us into who He created us to be.

    All the pain and heartbreak you survived were not wasted. God was building you. Strengthening you. Refining your character. Preparing you for an assignment bigger than what you can currently see.

    And one day, what suddenly unfolds in your life will reveal that God was working the entire time — even when you could not see it.

    Joseph: The Pit Was Not the End

    When Joseph was betrayed by his brothers, sold into slavery, falsely accused, and thrown into prison, he could not see the palace from the pit.

    He could not see the promotion from the prison cell.

    He could not understand how every betrayal, every closed door, and every painful year was actually part of God’s intentional preparation for his future.

    But God could.

    Joseph waited many years between receiving the dream and seeing it fulfilled. During the waiting, he endured rejection, injustice, isolation, and suffering. Yet God used every season to prepare him to eventually lead Egypt and save countless lives during famine.

    What looked like abandonment was actually preparation.

    Abraham and Sarah: Waiting on the Promise

    Abraham and Sarah waited decades for the promised son God told them they would have.

    The delay tested their faith, patience, and trust in God’s timing. But God still fulfilled His promise exactly as He said He would.

    Sometimes waiting stretches us in ways comfort never could.

    David: Anointed Before Appointed

    David was anointed king while still a young shepherd boy, but years passed before he actually became king.

    During the waiting, David was hunted by Saul, lived in caves, and faced betrayal, fear, and uncertainty.

    Yet God used the waiting season to shape David’s character before giving him the crown.

    The hidden season mattered just as much as the public one.

    Moses: The Wilderness Was Preparation

    Moses spent forty years in Egypt and another forty years in the wilderness before leading Israel out of bondage.

    The wilderness was not wasted time.

    God was preparing him there.

    The quiet seasons often teach us dependence on God in ways success and comfort never can.

    Hannah: Faith Through Heartbreak

    Hannah prayed and wept for a child while enduring deep emotional pain and misunderstanding.

    Year after year, she waited.

    But eventually, God gave her Samuel.

    Her story reminds us that God sees every tear we cry in private.

    Noah: Obedience Before the Rain

    Noah obeyed God and spent years building the ark before a single drop of rain ever fell.

    Imagine continuing in obedience without visible evidence that anything was happening.

    That is faith.

    Job: Waiting Through Suffering

    Job endured an incredibly painful season of loss, confusion, and suffering while waiting for restoration and understanding.

    Even in the silence, God never abandoned him.

    Elijah: Strengthened in the Wilderness

    After a great victory, Elijah entered a lonely wilderness season where God restored and strengthened him.

    Sometimes even after mountaintop moments, we still walk through valleys.

    God meets us there too.

    The Israelites: Learning Dependence on God

    The Israelites wandered in the wilderness for forty years before entering the Promised Land.

    The waiting season exposed fear, unbelief, and disobedience — but it also taught them dependence on God.

    Sometimes God has to remove our reliance on temporary things before we fully trust Him.

    Even Jesus Experienced Waiting

    Jesus Himself experienced seasons of preparation and waiting.

    • Thirty years before beginning ministry
    • Forty days in the wilderness
    • Time spent praying before major decisions

    His life reminds us that preparation often comes before assignment.

    Don’t Waste the Waiting

    When it feels like nothing is happening, remember:

    Joseph could not see the palace from the pit.
    David could not see the throne from the cave.
    Moses could not see deliverance from the wilderness.
    Noah could not see the flood while building the ark.

    But God could.

    So do not stop preparing during your waiting season.

    Take this season seriously. Let God refine you. Heal you. Strengthen you. Teach you. Build your faith. Build your character. Build your dependence on Him.

    One day it will all make sense.

    And when God finally reveals what He was doing behind the scenes, you will realize the waiting was never wasted at all.

    Reflection Questions

    1. Am I obeying God’s Word in the waiting, even when I do not understand what He is doing?
    2. Am I trusting God’s timing, or am I trying to force my own?
    3. Have I allowed disappointment or silence to weaken my faith?
    4. What comfort, relationship, habit, or mindset might God be asking me to release?

    Prayer:

    Lord, if there is anything in my life You are asking me to release — relationships, habits, distractions, mindsets, or comforts — give me the courage to let go and trust that what You have for me is greater.

    Strengthen my faith when disappointment tries to weaken it. Remind me that the waiting is not wasted and that You are using every season to shape me, prepare me, and draw me closer to You.

    In Jesus’ name,

    Amen

    —Wendy

  • Grace for the Days I Fall Short

    Grace for the Days I Fall Short

    By: Wendy Morris

    When I finally learned to be by myself and not feel the need to have someone in my life just because I was lonely, it released a stronghold from my life that I can’t even fully explain.

    For so long, I thought companionship was the answer to the emptiness I felt. I searched for comfort in people, conversations, attention, and temporary connections — anything to avoid feeling alone. But loneliness will make you settle for things God never intended for you.

    I had to learn that being alone and being lonely are not the same thing.

    God began showing me that I was constantly trying to fill places in my heart that only He could heal. I wanted reassurance. Comfort. Validation. Companionship. And while none of those things are inherently wrong, they become dangerous when we depend on people more than we depend on God.

    The moment I became okay sitting alone with God, healing, growing, and learning who I was outside of needing validation from others, something shifted inside of me. The fear of being alone started breaking. The desperation faded. The constant need for reassurance faded. And peace finally began taking its place.

    I realized I wasn’t actually craving people as much as I was craving wholeness.

    Galatians 5:1 says,

    “It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery.”

    And John 8:36 says,

    “So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.”

    Sometimes the strongest chains are not visible addictions. Sometimes they are emotional dependencies, fear of loneliness, unhealthy attachments, and believing we need someone beside us to feel complete.

    But God will sometimes allow seasons of solitude to heal what constant companionship was covering up.

    At one point in my life, I could not imagine being alone. I thought silence meant emptiness. I thought if I wasn’t connected to someone emotionally, then something was missing in me. But healing taught me otherwise.

    Healing taught me how to sit with myself.

    To face my wounds.

    To stop running from my pain.

    To stop looking for temporary comfort to cover permanent issues.

    To stop abandoning myself just to avoid loneliness.

    And through that process, I began learning how to love myself the way Jesus does.

    I couldn’t even love others the way Jesus does until I learned to love myself the way He does.

    For years, I poured into everyone else while neglecting myself. I confused self-sacrifice with self-abandonment. I accepted less than I deserved because deep down I didn’t fully understand my value yet. But Jesus never called us to destroy ourselves trying to keep others comfortable.

    Matthew 22:39 says,

    “Love your neighbor as yourself.”

    Psalms 139:14 says,

    “I praise You because I am fearfully and wonderfully made.”

    The more time I spent with God, the more I realized His love restores identity. It restores dignity. It teaches you that you can love people deeply while still having wisdom, boundaries, and discernment.

    Don’t get me wrong though — I’m tempted daily by the world. I won’t lie and pretend it isn’t hard. Some days my flesh is loud. Some days my emotions get the best of me. Some days loneliness tries to creep back in. Some days I struggle with wanting temporary comfort instead of waiting on what God has for me.

    And some days, I fail.

    But praise God for His grace and mercy.

    I’m thankful I don’t have to stay stuck in my failures, shame, or weakness. Every single day is another opportunity to repent, realign my heart, and keep pressing toward Him. That is the beauty of God’s love — He corrects, restores, and keeps calling us closer instead of casting us away.

    Lamentations 3:22-23 says,

    “Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for His compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is Your

    Reflection Questions:

    1. Am I seeking temporary comfort from people instead of true healing from God?
    2. What areas of my life reveal a fear of being alone?
    3. Have I confused loving others with abandoning myself?
    4. What strongholds or unhealthy attachments might God be trying to break in my life?
    5. Do I truly believe I am worthy of love because of who God says I am?
    6. In what ways have I grown emotionally, spiritually, or mentally over the last year?
    7. What does pressing toward God look like for me in this current season?
    8. Am I allowing shame from my failures to keep me stuck instead of receiving God’s grace and mercy?
    9. What boundaries do I need to create to protect my peace and healing?
    10. How can I intentionally spend more time with God instead of seeking validation from the world?
  • When Faith Is Strong but Your Heart Is Still Scared

    When Faith Is Strong but Your Heart Is Still Scared

    By: Wendy Morris

    There are moments in life where your faith can be strong, yet your heart still hurts.

    I think sometimes people assume that if you truly trust God, you will never feel fear, sadness, frustration, or exhaustion. But that simply is not true. We are human. We carry emotions, uncertainty, and the weight of difficult seasons while still believing God is good.

    Right now, I am in a waiting season in more ways than one.

    And waiting is hard.

    As a nurse, my mind naturally goes to the worst possible scenarios. After years of taking care of people in some of the hardest moments of their lives, it becomes difficult not to think through every outcome. My mind wants answers immediately. It wants certainty. It wants relief before the process is even over.

    But faith does not always work that way.

    Sometimes faith means waiting.

    Sometimes faith means trusting God before you have answers.

    And if I am being completely honest, it hurts processing some of this alone.

    There are moments I want to scream, cry, get angry, and just let every emotion pour out of me. Moments where my heart feels exhausted from carrying the unknown. Moments where I wish someone could simply sit beside me while my heart feels heavy.

    Because sometimes you do not need advice.
    Sometimes you just need comfort.
    A hug.
    A conversation.
    Someone willing to sit with you in silence while you process what you are carrying.

    But even in those moments, I hear that still, small voice reminding me:

    Remember the peace you have now that you once begged God for.

    Remember when you lost yourself trying to save and love everyone else, and now you finally know your worth.

    Remember when you did not know how you were going to pay your bills, and now God has sustained you and allowed you to support yourself for years on your own.

    Remember when you raised three children basically alone, and they grew into good, independent adults.

    Remember the moments you thought you could not survive another day, yet somehow God gave you strength to keep going.

    Remember how much you have grown spiritually.

    Remember the relationship with God that changed your entire life.

    Remember when you used to care so deeply about what people thought of you, and now your greatest desire is simply to please God.

    And through every season, every heartbreak, every struggle, and every unknown… God has never failed you.

    Not once.

    Psalm 121:1-2 says:

    “I lift up my eyes to the mountains— where does my help come from? My help comes from the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth.”

    Even now, while waiting on a procedure that could either change my entire world or bring relief, I know where my help comes from.

    But I would be lying if I said it does not scare me.

    Being a nurse is not easy when you suddenly find yourself on the patient side of things. Knowing too much can sometimes become its own burden. You understand the possibilities. You understand the paths certain outcomes could lead to. And while knowledge can be helpful, it can also make fear louder.

    That is why I have to remind myself daily whose voice I am listening to.

    Because the enemy speaks in confusion, fear, lies, anxiety, and uncertainty.

    But God speaks peace.

    2 Timothy 1:7 says:

    “For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.”

    The enemy wants us isolated in fear.
    God calls us back to truth.

    So when fear tries to creep in, I speak the name of Jesus.

    I get in the Word.

    I remind myself that no matter what happens, God will still be God tomorrow just like He is today.

    He has carried me through every hard season before this one, and He will carry me through this too.

    John 14:27 says:

    “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.”

    Maybe that is what faith really looks like sometimes.

    Not pretending you are not scared.
    Not pretending everything feels okay.

    But choosing to trust God anyway.

    Choosing to keep showing up.

    Choosing to keep believing even while your hands tremble.

    And maybe someone else needs to hear this today too:

    You are allowed to feel.
    You are allowed to be tired.
    You are allowed to admit this season is hard.

    But do not forget everything God has already brought you through.

    The same God who carried you then is carrying you now.

    Reflection Questions:

    1. Am I listening to fear or to God’s truth in this season?
    2. Where have I already seen God’s faithfulness in my life?
    3. What am I trying to carry alone that I need to surrender to God?
    4. How has this season strengthened me spiritually?
    5. What does choosing faith over fear look like for me today?

    Closing Prayer

    Lord,
    Thank You for being my peace in the middle of uncertainty. Even when fear tries to creep in and my mind feels overwhelmed, remind me that You are still in control. Help me to trust You in the waiting, even when I do not have answers yet.

    Strengthen my heart when I feel tired. Calm my mind when fear grows loud. Remind me of every season You have already carried me through and help me never forget Your faithfulness.

    Teach me to listen to Your voice over fear, confusion, and doubt. Fill me with peace that only You can give. And no matter what lies ahead, help me continue walking by faith and not by fear.

    Thank You for never leaving me, never failing me, and never letting go of me.

    In Jesus’ name,
    Amen.

    —Wendy

  • Intentional Time With God

    Intentional Time With God

    By: Wendy Morris

    There’s something I’ve been thinking about lately…

    Do you actually read the Bible daily?
    Do you truly make an effort to get into the Word and allow the Holy Spirit to speak to you?

    I think we’re all guilty at times of saying we’re “too busy” or “don’t have enough time” to do it consistently — or sometimes at all.

    I know I am.

    But I’ve found that when I make it a priority, when I become intentional and disciplined about spending time with God, He always provides exactly what I need in that moment. Every single time.

    What amazes me is that I can read the same scripture or the same Bible story I’ve read many times before, and somehow the Holy Spirit reveals something completely new to me each time. How powerful is that?

    The Power of God’s Word

    “For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword…” — Hebrews 4:12

    “Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” — Psalm 119:105

    We make time for so many other things in life.

    We schedule appointments we need.
    We go to our favorite sporting events.
    We make sure our kids never miss practice.
    We go to the gym faithfully.
    We watch our favorite TV shows.
    We never miss a concert.

    Yet somehow, we struggle to make time for God — our Savior, our comforter, our strength, our help in times of trouble.

    Make it make sense.

    Discipline In Fitness and Faith

    Over the last year and a half, my fitness journey has also become a spiritual journey.

    I’ve become more intentional with my walk with God because of the discipline I developed through fitness. I realized fitness and health are about so much more than losing weight, gaining muscle, or building endurance. Fitness changes your spirit and your mindset too.

    Those of you who are committed to physical fitness probably understand exactly what I mean.

    You start seeing physical changes, but you also begin to notice mental and emotional changes. Maybe it’s the quiet time during workouts that gives you space to think. Maybe it’s spending time with God while you walk, run, lift weights, or simply breathe and reflect.

    I’m not entirely sure what it is.

    But I do know this:

    If I can discipline myself to consistently go to the gym and take care of my physical body, then I can discipline myself to grow my relationship with Jesus too.

    “For physical training is of some value, but godliness has value for all things…” — 1 Timothy 4:8

    That’s what He desires from us — relationship.

    “Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you.” — James 4:8

    For a long time, I thought I already had a strong relationship with God because of all the difficult things I had survived in life. I knew Him in my pain. I knew Him in my heartbreak. I knew Him in my struggles.

    But I never realized how much deeper that relationship could become when I spent intentional time with Him — not only on my bad days or when I desperately needed help, but also on the days when life felt good.

    A Different Perspective

    Jesus has shown me a completely different perspective on life.

    Disappointments don’t hit the same when I trust that God is working all things together for my good. I find peace knowing He sees what I cannot see and protects me from things I may never fully understand.

    “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him…” — Romans 8:28

    And for that, I’m thankful.

    Even in painful seasons, He always finds a way to remind me how blessed I truly am.

    He continues to show me that He is the way, the truth, and the life. That there is purpose in everything — every season, every delay, every relationship, every lesson, every closed door, and every blessing.

    “Jesus answered, ‘I am the way and the truth and the life.’” — John 14:6

    Now, I look for His purpose in everything I do and in every person I meet.

    Don’t get me wrong — it isn’t easy.

    But it has all been worth it.

    As I look back over every season of my life, I realize I’m not the same person I used to be. I’ve become more intentional with everything: my relationships, my fitness, my work, and most importantly, my time with God.

    Does having a big heart sometimes lead to disappointment or hurt?

    Absolutely.

    But I’ve learned that the good far outweighs the bad.

    Growing Through Every Season

    “Let us not grow weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” — Galatians 6:97

    Honestly, I’m excited to see what God has for me in this season of my life.

    Each season has changed me. Strengthened me. Refined me.

    And I know He’s not finished with me yet.

    Reflection Question

    What are you consistently making time for — and where does God fit within those priorities?

    Closing Prayer

    Lord, thank You for never giving up on us, even when we become distracted, busy, or inconsistent. Help us become more intentional in our time with You. Teach us discipline not only in our physical lives, but in our spiritual lives as well. Open our hearts to hear Your voice through Your Word and allow the Holy Spirit to guide us daily. Thank You for every season, every lesson, and every blessing — even the painful ones. Continue shaping us into who You created us to be. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

    —Wendy

  • Having a Big Heart Hurts

    Having a Big Heart Hurts

    By Wendy Morris

    My best and worst trait is having a big heart.

    I’ve struggled with this for most of my life. I’m better than I used to be, but it’s still something I have to work on all the time. Because when you naturally love deeply, care deeply, and feel deeply, it can become very easy to overextend yourself for people who would never do the same for you.

    People with big hearts often give the benefit of the doubt too many times. We make excuses for people. We try to understand their pain. We stay longer than we should. We forgive quickly. And sometimes we ignore our own discernment because we want to believe the best in people.

    That kind of heart can be beautiful.

    But if it’s not balanced with wisdom and boundaries, it can also become exhausting.

    I think one of the hardest lessons I’ve had to learn is that having a good heart does not mean I have to continuously sacrifice my peace to prove I care. For a long time, I thought loving people meant always staying, always helping, always understanding, and always giving another chance.

    But healing teaches you differently.

    Healing teaches you that you can love people deeply and still choose distance. You can forgive someone and still recognize they are not healthy for your life. You can care about people without carrying the weight of their choices. And you can have compassion while still protecting your peace.

    I used to think boundaries were harsh.

    Now I see them as necessary.

    Because not everyone deserves unlimited access to your heart.

    Some people will take advantage of your kindness. Some people will drain you emotionally. Some people only show up when they need something. And some people will mistake your softness for weakness.

    But having a big heart is not weakness.

    In fact, I think it takes incredible strength to continue loving people after life has given you reasons not to. The key is learning discernment. Learning where your love is safe. Learning who truly values your presence and who only values what you provide for them emotionally.

    The older I get and the closer I grow to God, the more I realize that protecting your peace is not selfish. It’s wisdom.

    God never called us to become cold because we’ve been hurt. But He also never called us to pour endlessly into places that leave us empty, anxious, confused, or emotionally drained.

    I still have a big heart.
    I probably always will.

    But now I pray for wisdom just as much as I pray for love.

    Because a soft heart needs strong discernment.

    Maybe that’s the balance God teaches us over time:
    To stay loving without losing ourselves.
    To stay kind without tolerating dysfunction.
    To keep our hearts open while still guarding them wisely.

    Scripture

    “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” — Proverbs 4:23

    Reflection Question

    Have you been loving others in a healthy way, or have you been sacrificing your own peace trying to keep everyone else whole?

    Closing Prayer

    Lord, thank You for giving me a heart that loves deeply. Help me use that gift with wisdom and discernment. Teach me how to care for others without abandoning myself in the process. Show me where I need stronger boundaries and where I need greater wisdom. Protect my heart from bitterness, but also protect it from people and situations that disrupt the peace You placed within me. Help me love the way You intended — with grace, truth, and wisdom. In Jesus’ name, amen.

    —Wendy

  • Finding Personal Alignment: A Journey of Faith and Purpose

    Finding Personal Alignment: A Journey of Faith and Purpose

    Introduction

    What does personal alignment mean to you?

    For me, it has always been about being on the right path—doing what I am meant to do—even when I wasn’t entirely sure what that looked like. Deep down, I’ve always sensed there was more to life… a purpose waiting to be discovered.

    But here’s a question worth asking:
    Does everyone find their true purpose, or only those who actively seek it? And if we don’t seek it—do we end up settling for whatever life hands us?

    What Is Personal Alignment?

    Personal alignment is the state where our thoughts, emotions, actions, and values are in harmony.

    From a biblical perspective, alignment goes even deeper. It means conforming our thoughts, actions, and will to God’s—shifting from our own desires to His divine purpose. It’s not a one-time decision, but an ongoing transformation.

    Romans 12:2 reminds us:

    “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.”

    Alignment begins in the mind. When our thinking changes, our direction changes.

    The Process of Alignment

    Let’s be honest—alignment isn’t easy.

    If it were, everyone would be walking in peace and purpose.

    Instead, the journey often comes with:

    • Loss
    • Heartache
    • Discipline
    • Letting go
    • Consistency

    It requires intentional choices.

    We begin by:

    • Identifying our values
    • Practicing self-reflection
    • Setting healthy boundaries
    • Taking aligned, intentional action

    And sometimes, the hardest truth to accept is this:
    we can be our own biggest obstacle.

    A Choice We Must Make

    Alignment is not automatic—it’s a decision.

    Joshua 24:15 says:

    “But if serving the Lord seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve… But as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.”

    Every day, we choose:

    • God’s way or our way
    • Trust or control
    • Faith or fear

    Letting Go of Control

    I’ll be honest—I’ve spent a lot of time trying to control every aspect of my life.

    Control felt like safety.
    Like protection from fear, anxiety, and pain.

    But the truth is:
    Life will always include moments of uncertainty.

    The energy we spend trying to prevent discomfort could instead be used to seek God—where peace, clarity, and direction are already available.

    This is something I’m still working on.

    Building a Daily Connection with God

    What if we started our day differently?

    Instead of reaching for our phones or turning on the TV…
    we reached for God first.

    • Sitting in His presence
    • Reading His Word
    • Talking to Him in prayer

    Building a habit takes time—anywhere from a couple of weeks to a couple of months. It requires discipline, but also grace.

    Miss a day? Start again tomorrow.

    Eventually, it becomes something you don’t want to live without.

    Staying Connected to the Source

    We often search everywhere for answers, not realizing we already have access to the greatest source of guidance:
    God’s Word and the Holy Spirit.

    John 15:5 reminds us:

    “I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.”

    When we stay connected to Him:

    • We gain clarity
    • We produce fruit
    • We walk in purpose

    Without Him, we struggle to find direction.

    Conclusion: The Invitation to Align

    Personal alignment is a journey—not a destination.

    It’s choosing daily to:

    • Renew your mind
    • Surrender control
    • Seek God first
    • Walk in obedience

    It won’t always be easy—but it will always be worth it.

    So today, consider this your invitation:

    Step into alignment.
    Seek His guidance.
    Trust His plan.

    Because the life He has for you is greater than anything you could create on your own.

    —Wendy

  • Companionship, Stewardship, and the Cost of Settling

    Companionship, Stewardship, and the Cost of Settling

    We all want companionship. It’s a natural desire—to be seen, known, and loved. But the real question isn’t if we want connection…..it’s at what cost?

    I’ve had opportunities to go out with people but I’ve learned I’m not someone who can casually date just to pass time. I don’t want to give someone the wrong impression or lead them to believe I want something more when I don’t. That wouldn’t be fair to them—or to myself.

    This is where stewardship comes in.

    Stewardship isn’t just about money. It’s about how we care for our time, our hearts, our energy, and our purpose. It’s about being intentional with what God has entrusted to us—including relationships. When we treat connection casually , we often end up carrying emotional weight that was never meant for us to hold.

    Companionship should never come at the cost of our peace, our values, or our obedience to God.

    I’ve realized that being alone for a season is not a punishment—it’s protection. It’s space for healing. It’s room for growth. And it’s an opportunity to deepen my walk with God with distraction. Loneliness may knock, but I refuse to answer it with compromise. I have stumbled in this at times, but it’s truly the desire of my heart.

    There’s a difference between being open and being available.

    There’s a difference between companionship and convenience.

    I’m choosing to steward my heart well. I’m choosing clarity over comfort, obedience over options, and peace over pressure. I don’t want temporary connection that costs me long-term wholeness.

    Because the right companionship will never require me to abandon myself—or my faith—to belong.

    “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” —Proverbs 4:23