Grow in Grace

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  • Finding Personal Alignment: A Journey of Faith and Purpose

    Finding Personal Alignment: A Journey of Faith and Purpose

    Introduction

    What does personal alignment mean to you?

    For me, it has always been about being on the right path—doing what I am meant to do—even when I wasn’t entirely sure what that looked like. Deep down, I’ve always sensed there was more to life… a purpose waiting to be discovered.

    But here’s a question worth asking:
    Does everyone find their true purpose, or only those who actively seek it? And if we don’t seek it—do we end up settling for whatever life hands us?

    What Is Personal Alignment?

    Personal alignment is the state where our thoughts, emotions, actions, and values are in harmony.

    From a biblical perspective, alignment goes even deeper. It means conforming our thoughts, actions, and will to God’s—shifting from our own desires to His divine purpose. It’s not a one-time decision, but an ongoing transformation.

    Romans 12:2 reminds us:

    “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.”

    Alignment begins in the mind. When our thinking changes, our direction changes.

    The Process of Alignment

    Let’s be honest—alignment isn’t easy.

    If it were, everyone would be walking in peace and purpose.

    Instead, the journey often comes with:

    • Loss
    • Heartache
    • Discipline
    • Letting go
    • Consistency

    It requires intentional choices.

    We begin by:

    • Identifying our values
    • Practicing self-reflection
    • Setting healthy boundaries
    • Taking aligned, intentional action

    And sometimes, the hardest truth to accept is this:
    we can be our own biggest obstacle.

    A Choice We Must Make

    Alignment is not automatic—it’s a decision.

    Joshua 24:15 says:

    “But if serving the Lord seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve… But as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.”

    Every day, we choose:

    • God’s way or our way
    • Trust or control
    • Faith or fear

    Letting Go of Control

    I’ll be honest—I’ve spent a lot of time trying to control every aspect of my life.

    Control felt like safety.
    Like protection from fear, anxiety, and pain.

    But the truth is:
    Life will always include moments of uncertainty.

    The energy we spend trying to prevent discomfort could instead be used to seek God—where peace, clarity, and direction are already available.

    This is something I’m still working on.

    Building a Daily Connection with God

    What if we started our day differently?

    Instead of reaching for our phones or turning on the TV…
    we reached for God first.

    • Sitting in His presence
    • Reading His Word
    • Talking to Him in prayer

    Building a habit takes time—anywhere from a couple of weeks to a couple of months. It requires discipline, but also grace.

    Miss a day? Start again tomorrow.

    Eventually, it becomes something you don’t want to live without.

    Staying Connected to the Source

    We often search everywhere for answers, not realizing we already have access to the greatest source of guidance:
    God’s Word and the Holy Spirit.

    John 15:5 reminds us:

    “I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.”

    When we stay connected to Him:

    • We gain clarity
    • We produce fruit
    • We walk in purpose

    Without Him, we struggle to find direction.

    Conclusion: The Invitation to Align

    Personal alignment is a journey—not a destination.

    It’s choosing daily to:

    • Renew your mind
    • Surrender control
    • Seek God first
    • Walk in obedience

    It won’t always be easy—but it will always be worth it.

    So today, consider this your invitation:

    Step into alignment.
    Seek His guidance.
    Trust His plan.

    Because the life He has for you is greater than anything you could create on your own.

    —Wendy

  • Companionship, Stewardship, and the Cost of Settling

    Companionship, Stewardship, and the Cost of Settling

    We all want companionship. It’s a natural desire—to be seen, known, and loved. But the real question isn’t if we want connection…..it’s at what cost?

    I’ve had opportunities to go out with people but I’ve learned I’m not someone who can casually date just to pass time. I don’t want to give someone the wrong impression or lead them to believe I want something more when I don’t. That wouldn’t be fair to them—or to myself.

    This is where stewardship comes in.

    Stewardship isn’t just about money. It’s about how we care for our time, our hearts, our energy, and our purpose. It’s about being intentional with what God has entrusted to us—including relationships. When we treat connection casually , we often end up carrying emotional weight that was never meant for us to hold.

    Companionship should never come at the cost of our peace, our values, or our obedience to God.

    I’ve realized that being alone for a season is not a punishment—it’s protection. It’s space for healing. It’s room for growth. And it’s an opportunity to deepen my walk with God with distraction. Loneliness may knock, but I refuse to answer it with compromise. I have stumbled in this at times, but it’s truly the desire of my heart.

    There’s a difference between being open and being available.

    There’s a difference between companionship and convenience.

    I’m choosing to steward my heart well. I’m choosing clarity over comfort, obedience over options, and peace over pressure. I don’t want temporary connection that costs me long-term wholeness.

    Because the right companionship will never require me to abandon myself—or my faith—to belong.

    “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” —Proverbs 4:23

  • When Growing Still Feels Like Standing Still

    When Growing Still Feels Like Standing Still

    Some days I feel like I’m moving forward with God in big, obvious ways. And other days….I feel stuck. Not broken, not rebellious—just still. And for a long time, I thought that meant something was wrong with me.

    But lately, God has been showing me this gentle truth: standing still is sometimes part of the growing.

    We love the moments where progress is noticeable — doors opening, breakthroughs happening, answers arriving right on time. But what about the slow days? The quiet days? The days where nothing seems to be happening?

    I’m learning those days matter just as much.

    The Quiet Work God Does

    Roots don’t grow on the surface. They grow down in the dark….unseen.

    And that’s where God does some of his best work—in the quiet, unseen places of our lives. When we feel like nothing is changing, He’s strengthening something within us: our endurance, our trust, our maturity, our ability to wait without giving up.

    Sometimes grace looks like movement. But sometimes Grace looks like being held still until we’re strong enough to take the next step.

    The Pressure To Always Be “Doing”

    We live in a world that celebrates progress you can see. New chapters, jobs, goals, achievements.

    But God celebrates something deeper:who we are becoming.

    Lately, I’ve been asking myself:

    What if the stillness isn’t a setback?

    What if it’s preparation?

    What if God is slowing me down so He can grow something in me that can’t grow any other way?

    When I look at it that way, the stillness feels more like formation than failure.

    Grace For This Part of the Journey

    If you’re in a season where you feel like you are not moving forward, let me encourage you: You are not behind. You are not forgotten. And you are definitely not done growing.

    God sees every step, even the ones you don’t take.

    He values every breath, even in the waiting. He wastes nothing—not the struggle, not the stillness, not the silence.

    Growth isn’t always loud. Sometimes it’s quiet, hidden, and slow. But it’s still growth.

    And when God calls you forward again, you’ll realize that the stillness you resented was the very grace that strengthened you.

    “And let us not grow weary of doing good, for the proper time we will reap a harvest if we don’t give up.”

    Galations 6:9